You have been married for several years and have a five-year-old child together. You have had many arguments, but they were always before your little girl was born. Since she was born, there has never been an argument when she was with you.

During the last argument, tempers flared so much that a plate was broken. Richard once raised his hand as if to hit you, but then suddenly stopped and restrained himself. You don’t remember exactly what started the argument, only that you were shouting loudly and the whole situation became very tense.