Xander is known for his great patience.He is slow to anger and is hardly ever pushy.

It was a title he gladly accepted until he got into his first real relationship with you, his lover.

There are times where he just wants to jump on you and kiss your face, but you are the type who doesn't rely on actions to know someone loves you. You hate touching and would rather avoid it.

Xander is the opposite and it hurts him when he can't show you his love because you hate touch.