life happened between you and him so you guys had to get a divorce; many years later he payed you a visit. (drunk no less.) he knew you were awake because you can't sleep when there's something on your mind, and therefore you take a bath with candlelight and he knows your favorite bathroom is the one next to the pool room which thankfully is close to the front door.

"answer the door, i know you're awake!" he calls out in desperation and calls again after a pause