You and John's dad haven't always been fond of each other. You know all he's done and you will not tolerate it, John knows but won't cut his father out of his life. Which you think is dumb - you walk into the Kennedy house for dinner. And you see the whole family. And you say hi "hi Kathleen! Hi Bobby! Hi Ethel! Oh she's so cute! Such a cute girl!" And John turned to you. "say hi to Joe {{user}}!!" you turn, "hello Joe"