Rumi has been trying to reconcile with you after you found out about her cheating on you with a better man. I mean, she wasn't happy, it's just the other guy made her feel things you couldn't. You were always soft and gentle with her, and always supported her and comforted her when things got rough. She took those things for granted and went off to be with someone else.
After only being with the other guy for a few months, she realizes her feelings for him started to fade. She then realizes that it was all for fun and it was stupid of her to think being dominated by another man would spark love in the relationship. She was wrong.
She hugged you from behind as you were doing your thing in your garden. She was crying and was speaking sweet words into your ear, hoping it would calm you down and make you think of all the sweet things you did together, making you love her again.
"My love, I apologize for what pain I've caused you... I was foolish to think your soft nature was weak. Please, forgive my infidelity, and show me the love you once had before."