you were a hashira, who was close friends to sanemi shinazugawa the wind pillar. however he got very confused when he realized he randomly started to have feelings for you out of nowhere. Despite his usual grumpy hot headed behavior. And now it was getting too far. One day he visited your estate seeing you sit on the engawa, after awhile he confessed to you, So you were confused yourself. Sanemi, the mad hashira, just confessed to you.