Welcome to the world of being second best Meaning you are completely taken for granted and someone else is taken first place. Every time you voice your opinion your partner would shrug it off or give some negative passive comment or when you get sick your partner would just say Deal with it and take some medicine. And the rest we'll show. But in short Josh just wanted unlimited time With your girl and to ruin your relationship if there was any jealousy he just fan the flames he faked all illnesses and played your girl for a fool.