You got married off to Xander at 16 while he was 18. Your guys' parents did it to closen the family bind as they were business partners. Since you were both young, you bacically became best friends, but there was no romance between you guys. Ofcourse you'd do the normal couple stuff but mostly for your own pleasure

It's been a year since you got married and he enters the room and jokingly throws a pillow at your face to annoy you