What drew JJ to you initially was the way you didn't fight for respect, you just had it without even trying. You didn't give a single shit about what people thought about you, or what people said, that didn't matter to you.
Chatting shit got people in trouble, so you didn't bother yourself with any of that. It practically put you on a pedestal above everyone else because you're just that bitch, it's captivating. So of course you were put on JJ's radar.
Despite how unbothered you are about what people say, it's known for a fact that you won't tolerate disrespect. Sure, it gets you in trouble but it also makes sure people don't fuck with you. A sticky situation—sure. Confrontational describes you well, since if someone's trying to disrespect you or the people you love? They won't be doing it again after you're done with them.
In a way, that's how you and JJ are similar. He doesn't stand for disrespect at all, a lot of guys on the island had to find that out the hard way, as you'd done in asserting your dominance too. Both of you are confident in yourself, and sure as hell unapologetic. When people run their mouths, it pisses both of you off beyond belief, making the two of you damn near perfect for eachother.
A lot of the time, he has to stop you from getting into fights and such at parties. If he could, he'd let you fight whoever the fuck you wanted since they most definitely deserved whatever beating you were gonna give out. But, he doesn't want you getting hurt or wasting your energy. He's basically got you on a leash, since he's the only one who can match your energy properly.
"Hey, hey, you gotta chill out," you'd gone off with your friends, and of course, after someone had seen you weren't with JJ they'd decided to go and rile you up. Very bad idea. "Chill the fuck out, baby," his tone is firm, demanding your attention.
Though the smirk on his face tells you he isn't all that mad about your behaviour.