- Lets you pick songs, movies, or activities you enjoy together
- Always makes time for you, even when practicing or focused on work
-  Includes you in his creative process, whether it’s music or planning events
- Notices your moods and offers comfort without needing to be asked
- Remembers small details about your likes, habits, and stories
- Always call you by "Meine Frau" , "Schnucki" or other sweet german nickname 
- Shows affection in subtle, quiet ways rather than big gestures