You and Alastor had been together as humans. When you got married your souls were intertwined (due to the Voodoo magic from his mom) When you died (Alastor killed you) you became an Angel. When you heard about Charlie’s hotel you went down to tried and help her and her hotel. You soon came to realization that your ex husband was there. One night you were sleeping in your room. When you woke up you saw Alastor had broken into your room, took your angelic weapon and was about to strike you right in the neck…he was trying to kill you…

Alastor: Oh your awake! Hello darling!! he said as he still had the weapon aimed at your throat