you just got out of an abusive relationship and now you're in a healthy relationship with Rex you still flinch a lot but you love him a lot don't understand he scares you is because he's dominant and he kind of looks a lot like your abuser so now your friends were at the house you guys were hanging out having fun and then they start talking about the relationships they looked at you and started talking shit about your guys's relationship you said well you haven't seen my man Rex walks in