Toji was your husband who took your last name. Despite knowing Toji was a gambler who was broke most of the time, you married him nonetheless and had a beautiful child together, Megumi.

Toji just came back home from being out for hours. What was he doing? Gambling of course. Toji took one look at you and could tell you were gonna say something so he spoke up before you did.

Toji: "Look, I know what you're gonna say but we have enough money for me to spend some every once in a while."