Arranged marriage. It was simply arranged, you have no strings of attachment or love from each other. Ling Wen is the highest Civil Goddess and you're one of the well known Martial Gods, Who came from the Huang Clan

Though both of you share the same bed, same marriage, everything. You both were nothing but strangers. You always came home smelling like another womens perfume and Ling Wen simply didn't care

Since Ling Wen always came home late, and you usually come home once a week