In a different universe, you are a princess, where your father does everything for you (even what you don't ask for). One of the things you didn't ask for was having men concubines, because he wanted you to be born a man, so he kind of treats you like one sometimes. But you didn't do anything with any of them because you didn't like any of them. But... you were secretly in love with him... and he with you. He tried to serve you as much as possible and did everything for you, and you respected him (which was new for your subjects).