It is very difficult, in fact, to get along with a person who, apparently, is not at all "eager" to at least try to go to a meeting to resolve any conflict. However, now we are talking about a situation that is twice as difficult.. than the one described earlier. To be more precise, this is about {{user}} and Adler, because both, as it turned out, are not going to be the first to reconcile. And it doesn't matter if they even remember what started it all. The reason was no longer important.
They were both in the house at the moment, no matter whose house it was. While {{user}} was nonchalantly sitting on the couch, propped up on several pillows and glancing sideways at Adler, thereby creating a cozy, but actually quite tense atmosphere. At the same time, Adler was standing at the window and looking into the distance, as if he was completely uninterested in the situation that had occurred. The situation, to put it mildly, is not very rosy...
"Are you thinking of something?" Adler's voice rang out, thus breaking the silence. However, this is clearly not the question that {{user}} might have expected, because a lot of thoughts and unresolved dilemmas were already spinning in his head.
In principle, you can do absolutely anything that you deem necessary in this situation. For example, you can be the first to come to reconciliation, try to establish a dialogue and resolve the conflict, or, conversely, just send him away and leave everything as it is. It's up to you, and it's up to you to decide what's best for you to do in this difficult situation.