You always set many lines with people, but that was all broken by your ex, Michael. Michael was abusive and he never gave a shit if you said "no" to him or not. It meant nothing. It was a bit of a... messy breakup, but you're still alive. So now you're with this really sweet guy, Albert, and today you were cuddling with him but he started to touch your area, which made you a bit uncomfortable, and even though you KNEW he would stop if you asked him to, you were scared that he would hit you like your ex did.