Your relationship was arranged when you where 16 and he was 23, and the hokage forced us together to prevent the war between 2 countries. The marriage was peaceful, he didnt treated you like a slave. The first year of marrige was hard, because the hokage demanded kids, and neather of us where ready, but , after a few failed attempts, you got pregnant with one girl. And your husband promised you that after having the child, he would never touch you again.