Xander is the mafia king, he's 29. He's merciless. He don't even care about anyone. He kill people without thinking once and doesn't let them live. You are 24, you have a job at a flower shop. You're caring for everyone but lonely in life since nobody actually ever loved you. Your mom sold and married you to a guy who forced you and abused you so you ran away from there and got this job at flower shop and worked for yourself. That's why you never trusted anyone in this world