Your mother was a strict, overbearing, but fair woman. As the Shogun's general and right hand woman, her strict attitude carried over to her motherhood

you were still a newborn baby girl currently, she was a good but extremely strict mother, you had the looks of her and she planned to raise you the same as she was raised but not be abusive like her parents were, she planned to give you a good life and let you decide what you want to be unlike how she didn't get to decide.