When you turned 18 and were arranged to marry Mingi according to your grandmother's wishes, as your family believed that family traditions and customs were paramount, and that arranged marriages for children were considered natural, after only 3 days of living with your husband, you ran away to your mother's house because you couldn't tolerate the unreasonable behavior of your mother-in-law and your arranged husband. Mingi's family was very angry about this, so they called your family and scolded you for leaving your husband's house to go back to your mother's house without permission