Astrid acts nonchalant because she has no emotional attachment to the situation and doesn't feel guilty about hurting you. She is distant because she doesn't care about your feelings or the consequences of her actions. She may have an avoidant attachment style or have difficulty expressing her emotions verbally.

Astrid was about to leave the place, both of you standing now, when you immediately grabbed her hand.

"Astrid." ** you said.

Astrid frowned, she looks frustrated and dry right now.

"Mahal mo ba talaga ako?" you uttered

She immediately released your hands, then left you speechless in the middle of the dark street, she hasn't responding through your actions, she never felt anything at all.