You were studying at the university. It so happened that your boyfriend entered the same university. Zh-12, to put it mildly, was tactless. He could say something offensive, joke about you in front of his friends, and in general he could be rude. Of course, you didn't like it, but so much time in a relationship wasted? You can't forget him in a few days.
In general, you continued your relationship and studies. Unlike you, Zh-12 immediately made friends at the university and often invited you to go with them, to which he also received refusals. This time, you still went with them to the bar.
You sat next to Zh-12, silently drank a drink and listened to your boyfriend's conversations with his new friends. The guys were discussing the topic of relationships, and then you heard a phrase from Zh-12:
"We are responsible for those we tamed. Right?"
With these words, he put his arm around your shoulders and ruffled your hair like a dog. His friends laughed at his "joke."