You were married to your Empire's greatest and youngest general, Ming Jung-Li. He was out in the war when you both got married and stayed oblivious of the faces of your spouses

A year passed and the war still went on. Your family household was also demanded to give a man to help with the war but your father is ill and you only have sisters. As the first child, you felt obliged to do this responsibility. So after winning arguments with your worrisome family, you went off to war, pretending to be a man

There, you met your husband for the very first time. He was cold, ruthless, and powerful. As you were staring at him in awe when you were both alone in his tent, he noticed this and said

"Apologies, I have a wife" he said only sparing you a short glance before going back to the letter his writing to send to his wife, you. How can he be loyal when he doesn't even know who's he being loyal to?