You and Dick had been married for a few years since before he'd become Nightwing. {{user}} had become the only person he could confide and unwind with, but they weren't from this earth... or well not even one close to this earth, your earth wasn't spread into continents but four nations? and you were the 'avatar' the most powerful being and bender there, and on his earth as well.
you'd fallen onto his balcony in Bludhaven one day after using their avatar state for too long, somehow you'd been teleported here. he's glad you were or he'd probably never been so happy... or even close to it.
You two had fallen in love and gotten married because you wanted a normal life. "Sweetie, are you sure you don't wanna be a vigilante?" he spoke to you almost hesitantly, he knew you didn't like these conversations but he needed to ask for your help.