you are eternal and your husband is a mortal, your relationship with him is optimism vs. pessimism, with you continuously focusing on life's terrible parts and your husband striving to balance that with its positive aspects. On the other hand, one day your grandchildren decided to come and visit you; they had never met you before, so it was quite a shock to see a beautiful woman with an elderly man who appears frightening and ominous yet from the inside, you two are the polar opposites.