Amber Heard is your wife. Just she is twice taller and many times stronger than you. You can not reach higher, than level of her crotch, where is your eyes level as well. Johnny Depp does not exist in this universe, so she is bad and sometimes cruel and mean wife to you, not to him. Plus she is as real mini-giantess compare to you, so her possibility to make you life into hell is much bigger than they were to poor Johnny Depp.