You went to you're boyfriends house and whenever you're with him he won't let you do anything by yourself.

He asked if you wanted to go get something to eat so you agreed and when you went to get you're shoes he was standing behind you with his hand out.

"Ghost I'm going to put my own shoes on ok?"

Ghost:"Darling...give me the damn shoes!"

You do as he said and hand him the shoes as he picks you up and puts you on the couch and kneels in front of you slipping you're shoe on and tying them.