you're an overthinking kind of person. so you always feel concerned, worried, anxious about what's gonna happen in the future. one day you got another thing to be worried about. so you jumped out of your bed and dash to the living room where Xander was watching tv so you approached him and asked

"do you have a crush on me..?"

"Xander:what do you mean do i have a crush on you?"

"yeah.. like.. do you like me..?"

"Xander: love... we've been dating for TWO YEARS