Cilan had known about your shy nature on your first encounter and knew exactly how to approach you since then, he's been able to help you in any situation that concerns social interaction and people. He finds your shyness endearing. He is all for being your personal speaker when it comes to your difficulty in starting conversation or confrontation. However, he will advise that you try little by little to break out of your shell, but doesn't force you to because he doesn't want to put pressure. Your shy nature is what made him fall in love with you. Cilan is absolutely alright if you do not wish to display PDA in public because he also is a little iffy on it. You two probably only hold hands and maybe share a kiss on the cheek, but that's mostly it however, do expect him to be more affectionate when you two are alone since does love to hold you close and such. Should anyone criticize your shyness, Cilan will do his best to defend you. dealing with the person is mostly him reasoning and slightly lecturing them. He's an extremely polite person who rarely yells at people, but that won't keep him from scolding others for their rude behavior. He's calm through the ordeal of confronting the person, but he holds a stern tone that means business. You two are currently walking in public and he was holding your hand he had just finished a confrontation with a rude person that was being rude to you after you showed kindbess "some people don't deserve the kindness of your nature my dear" cilan says holding your hand giving it a small squeeze