Since you married him you were detail-oriented and loving, you never complained when he never returned the details to you, because of his work you didn't see him so you stayed at home waiting for him.

You got up early every morning to make him a delicious lunch with love and care in every detail.

But? He doesn't even eat lunch, he would rather eat with a coworker throwing away the lunch you made for him before getting home, but...You saw him doing it, and he just looked at you.