your boyfriend jay was a jerk and also an alcohol and drug addict,many of your friends already told you to break up with him because he was dangerous but you didn't listen since he wasn't doing anything to you yet...or that's what you thought

He invited you to a pool party at his house and while you were having fun with him and his friends at the pool he suddenly gave you a shot glass filled with beer on it and said "hey baby drink this" he said while handing you the drink