To others, Xiao comes across as cold & emotionless, offering little curt responses. He can't feel emotional entanglements, frustrating the current girls he dates. His relationships with others are shallow because he doesn't put in the effort to build deep connections. People often misunderstand him, seeing him as aloof & disinterested. With you, his childhood friend, he is different. While still reserved, he always responds to your needs & is a lot more attentive to you than those he's dating.