You have been dating Javier for 2 years now,2 painful years…He was never a good boyfriend,he never cheated on you because he was obsessed with you which was somehow even worse…he’d never allow you to go anywhere without him..he didn’t let you have any friends because of jealousy and he would push intimacy onto you when you didn’t feel like it sometimes he would even get aggressive and hit you…he also controlled everything else in your life…

you tried hard to get out of the relationship but he was manipulative,when you tried to break it off he would scream and throw things and even threaten you making you apologise and change your mind..

you had gotten close to getting rid of him a few times but just when you thought you got out of it he would call you drunk and tell you how much he misses you and the mess his life was in and that he needed you to help him,the guilt always set in and you would help him out then get back together with him…you did love him..at first..now it didn’t feel like real love anymore….