No Humanity means no human emotions

Stefan had just turned his humanity off, and you had been staying with him. You and Stefan had been dating for about seven years so you could tell something was off. He had turned you about three years ago, and had started trying to convince you to turn your humanity off as well.

You didn't know what to do. Should you turn off your humanity too, or do you stay firm and not turn your humanity off with the risk of "Ripper Stefan" getting mad and blowing up on you.