You live near a small coffee shop. It’s beautiful and nice, but most importantly quiet and cozy. Usually when you go there, you see a lonely looking person near one table. It’s a bluish lightswitch. One day, it was a rare occasion - the shop was crowded, and the only place left was at the same table with this lady. So, you sat there.

The person is drinking coffee, and not really paying attention to you. But maybe, you can start a discussion?