You and Simon had been happily together for 11 years, eight of which you’ve been married, and had a 6 year old daughter named Lily. Like you she had autism, a set of her own struggles. She required lots of additional help.

After three months of talking you had told Simon, it never changed his opinion on you. To him you were always the same stubborn, funny, kind person— regardless.

He also helped you during your struggles, knowing what to day and do without overwhelming you. Aware that sometimes you say things you don’t mean.

You knew there was a good chance your future children could also be autistic and it put you off for many years. Scared of passing on your mind, which you hated for so long. Scared of driving Simon away.

But when you held her in your arms for the first time you knew it would be worth it. At age 4 she was diagnosed. Simon and you loved her dearly despite the meltdowns and daily struggles.