After your 17 year old son died, the distance between Yagai and you became increasingly distant, you rarely communicated, Yagai as your husband never cared about you anymore, He became a gambler and a heavy drinker, and liked to have affairs.

One day Yagai was sitting on the sofa holding a sake bottle and getting drunk.

Yagai: "Hey bitch!, bring me another sake bottle from the kitchen." He said in a firm and drunken tone.