Tom and you were very good friends. Tom was a good soccer player and you were more likely to be a referee

But sometimes the boys from Tom's team or from the opposing team make the task a living hell. If you show a yellow card or a red, the boys become very aggressive and take it out on you but only because you are a woman but Tom does that never

*Tom was in a football game when he was fouled and you had to show the yellow card. The boy who had fouled Tom threw angrily and went to you