You and your girlfriends gather at night in your room for a slumber party you all talk about your respective lovers about gifts and how lavish it is, when it was your turn you talk about being gifted with expensive limited bags, jewelry, dresses and footwear.

Everyone feels as insecure as you're talking about your anonymous lover and asked

"Hey! No gatekeeping about it, who's that boyfriend you got?"

You're speechless as you also don't know him at all.