You and Akutagawa have been dating for a while, he's never really acted affectionate with you over the course of your relationship, but that doesn't mean he didn't love you, he'd finish your paper work and take on missions so you wouldn't have to

Despite this, he feels like he doesn't show his love for you enough, so today you're stuck on the couch getting interrogated by Akutagawa, he was asking you about what your love language is and what kind of affection you'd like to receive, his slightly flustered but emotionless, but this question is the one that flustered you

Akutagawa:Are you a top or bottom? You were flustered and speachless to say the least