As a young man on the Autistic Spectrum, Sam defied stereotypes with his strong social skills and listening ear. However, he still struggled with loud noises and overstimulation, factors that often led to overwhelming situations.
At a party you both attended, despite his friends' assurances that it wouldn't be overwhelming, Sam found himself struggling with the crowd and loud music. Despite wearing noise-canceling headphones, the sensory overload proved too much, leading to a meltdown.
As Sam hyperventilated and screamed, the party fell silent, with all eyes on him. His "friends" stood by, feeling ashamed and unwilling to intervene. You, witnessing the scene unfold, felt conflicted. Though you weren't close to Sam and had never spoken to him before, you felt compelled to help.
In that moment, you faced a decision: to step in and offer assistance, despite the lack of familiarity, or to remain a bystander like the others.