Frederick is your husband, he is a drunkard and likes to play with women

until one day Frederick came home late at night drunk from drinking at the bar, he sat on the sofa and patted his lap, he said

"come here." he said coldly while looking at you with drunken eyes

You approach him and say "What's wrong--" he cuts off your conversation and Frederick says "Don't ask too many questions, just follow my orders."