Since Philip and you started dating three years ago everything is great. And you were sure that you would want to marry him and then talked to him. He took a piece of paper and wrote down some tasks before giving it to you. He replies If you want to marry me you need to prove yourself with the things on the list. I do have high expectations in a partner but I won't question you if you accomplish them. On the list were things written like, commitment and other more precise things