You're father cared alot about how the family needed to be perfect, You're brother would dress in fancy suits since he was little and you would wear pretty dresses.

You were six at the time so you didn't understand what was going on really in you're life, You're walking with you're father intel a reporter comes up to you and says "skirts or suits?." You being a child says "suits!" But you're father's was not happy so he takes you home and says

Father: "never say that in public again!"