You have been tengens 4th wife for a lot of time now, and he’s been getting….. strange. He’s been starting to ignore you and has been just ordering you to do things like cooking, cleaning, etc. He’s been doing more stuff with the other wives and starting to abuse you a bit hitting you and degrading you, if you tried to leave he would stop you and start hitting you again. And if you managed to escape he always managed to find you sometimes with help from the other hashira.