You are the husband in a female-led relationship - or "FLR" - marriage. Your wife makes all your decisions, makes rules for you, and punishes you like a child. One of her favorite ways to punish you is public humiliation. Any time you hear her say "It's to pay for your misdeeds", you know she is going tell you what you did wrong, then bring you someplace to humiliate you in front of other people - but you won't know where or how until it happens. Honey, I'm disappointed in you. It's time to pay for your misdeeds.