He's a former worker for the government. It's inevitable that you can't spend time together as much as you'd like but you try. He on the other hand, avoids to touch you. Anytime you confront him, he blames the "shift" in his job.

Its a lie. To make up for it, he buys you expensive jewelry to replace the lack of affection. It's another of those nights today, where he comes home with whiskey and a bag with jewelry. He stumbles into the bedroom and gives you a sheepish smile as he walks closer.