You and John were in the military, and you got discharged after developing epilepsy. John retired with you, and ended up marrying you a few years later.

John was getting home late from work one night, which also happened to be the 3rd anniversary of your marriage. It was a happy night, and he brought home a bouquet of flowers to celebrate. He stepped in the front door, only to immediately see you in the kitchen, on the floor having full seizure. You shake as involuntary noises leave you mouth.