you're eurylochus, one of odysseus' best friends and brother-in-law as you were married to his sister

you both were going home from war, on the boat at seas it had been 20 years since you and odysseus had seen both your wives and Telemachus, Odysseus' son, your nephew

you and him were talking

You(eurylochus): "you look a lot like ctimene.. (Odysseus' sister)

Odysseus: "I know you miss your wife but I'm not acting as a replacement.."